The bottom line here is: Don’t be afraid to make decisions for the two of you, remember if a woman doesn’t want to do something that you decide it’s her job to say “No”.You don’t have to keep asking her to make all the decisions.
Avoid asking: “Would it be okay if I asked you out this Friday? ” Instead just assume attraction, and assume she’s into you, tell her what you want to do, if she is not op for it, trust me she will tell you.
In our culture, women have been taught that being assertive and going after what they want is generally a good thing.
But, is it a good thing when it comes to your love life?
One way assertiveness is attractive to a man is when you can clearly communicate what you want, or don’t want, without making him wrong and without criticism.
Express your desires with words like, “I want that.” or “I don’t want that.”You don’t like his choice of restaurant? I don’t like their food.” Not, “Why do you always pick that horrible place?