One day, however — trust me on this — the will to live fully again, and even experience companionship, will arise. It’s hard to throw yourself back in the dating game after 30, 40 years or more.
Widowed with children date and remarry with ease or not depending on the age of the children, and believe it or not – adult children can be the worst to deal with when it comes to dating and remarriage with teenagers coming in an unsurprising second. At what magical point in the days, weeks or month after a spouse dies is dating permitted?
It is a terrible feeling to know that you no longer have a loved one to be concerned about you.
So my question to you is why you would want to continue to maintain a lonely lifestyle when there are people out there in the world who could bring you great joy and happiness? And if life is short, should we not try to seek out as much happiness and joy as possible? I just want you to consider the possibility that you can love again.
These worries and concerns are natural, but they’re no excuse.
If a widower really has serious feelings for you, he won’t let the thoughts or opinions of others stop him from letting the world know about you.