What happened to the excitement of meeting new people?
When did attending events and trying new restaurants become laborious?
Unbelievers don’t believe in God so they don’t have any respect for authority or accountability or consequences, so they’re more likely to sin sexually in a romantic relationship or just do what feels good instead of being responsible, committed, or mature.
Christians know we are sinful and our hearts may want to be just like the unbelievers, so we need to be transparent to authority and have our fathers, mentors, and pastors help and guide us and let us know where we’re in sin, being lazy, or hurting our significant other in how we act in our relationships.
If you do recognize these factors in yourself and the way you communicate with others, a good way to counteract them is to map out some practical steps you can work on each day.
After all, finding a permanent and lasting relationship is tough enough without complicating it even further by taking yourself too seriously.
Pretty much any sincere Christian who wants to serve God and honor him with how they handle a romantic relationship is going to be prone to this obsession with doing things right. Now, first: I have no regrets with how my life so far has turned out.When did the anticipation of an amazing first kiss translate to a sucky time?One of the reasons we created Fantasy Dating is to take the dread out of dating and replace it with fun.That’s a gift that not everyone has, and this ability to connect deeply with someone will help you experience life and love in all its intensity.But as you’ve probably already discovered, it’s also important to be smart about whom you offer yourself to and about how to pace yourself so that your attachment to others develops over time.