So my husband just received an alert on his phone that his new account at some dating site has been set up.HE is currently sleeping so I haven't said anything about it.Anyway to cut the story short I managed to reset a password to an email account I had found but never expected to find that he was registered to 3 online dating chat sites (which he had set up 1 month before we got married) He had even set his profile as single and even posted a picture of himself to someone (not a rude one but a photo all the same).He had lots of emails from people but hadnât ever opened any of them other than the odd one to accept a friend or request a friend.Wait for a moment when he leaves his computer to go into another room.Then go to his computer and see what he's looking at.He says he only ever went on a couple of times when he had had an awful day and that it made him feel better to exaggerate his life -a nice car, big house etc.
Check sites such as Match.com, e Harmony, Zoosk and Christian Mingle.
When I confronted him he told me he had been really stupid and never thought about what he was risking.
He works 14 hour days He works full time and then comes home to work on his business which he hopes to make a success for us so we can have the life we have always talked and dreamed about.
I did note the website name and his login info, as it was conveniently in the alert on his phone, and put that information in the notepad of my phone for future reference. First, let me say that I am terribly sorry----------- that is really stinky!! but I'm thinking maybe you could approach him about your marriage. but I think some emergency marriage repair action is in order.
But i'm not sure what i should do, should I just confront him about it, or do I wait and see if he uses the site? I'm sure your head is spinning in all sorts of directions. It would be really hard for me to keep that inside . Say something like you just aren't feeling as close as you would like and you'd really like to work on it, maybe counseling. You are a great girl---- and for him to have betrayed your relationship this way is too painful. and signing up for a site like that means he isn't having an affair . good luck First, let me say that I am terribly sorry----------- that is really stinky!! but I'm thinking maybe you could approach him about your marriage. but I think some emergency marriage repair action is in order.