A lot of men just don’t like to admit the fact that they’re losers, and I use the word playfully. But for reference terms throughout this article I want to use the term Mr. Don’t think about how you can change and mold him into something perfect. But you need to date somebody exactly how he shows up in the moment. Yeah sure, you can mold your kids, but in the long run they’re going to have their own brain and become teenagers. Check out today’s video on how not to date a loser. I strongly suggest you share this video with your friends.
If he’s a man who wants to work on himself you’ll see it in the first 30 days. It will be a great topic of conversation when you talk.
I see so many things that he can be, but he doesn’t seem to see them in himself. I’m getting so frustrated because I feel like this man could be everything to me but he’s so lazy and so content being what he is. When you meet somebody, you see a man based on what you want him to be. If you make it further down the road, and the relationship ends, it will be because of the same warning signs that you saw in the first 30 days but chose to ignore.
The man you think is such a winner is only a winner in your fantasy driven eye. Date a man based on who he shows up as, not on what you think he is going to be or could become.
If you suspect that you might be dating a loser, review the top 3 signs below and then get started on your plan of escape.
Short Fuse - People with a short fuse are often hard to deal with, especially within an intimate relationship.
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This inability to accept their wrong doings is what makes them a loser who really isn’t worth your time.
He always has a beer on his hand when you come over not forgetting he told you to buy him some on your way.
He does not make it to dinner with your parents after you told him how important it is to you.
Obviously some threats are more serious than others but it is important to remember that a quality partner will be one that enhances rather than endangers your development and well-being in the areas mentioned above.
Though it isnt always easy to tell what kind of person you are dating right away, most losers eventually begin to drop clues about their character flaws that should be recognized by you as signs that its time to get out of the relationship before things take a turn for the worse.