(WHAT'S NEW: 10/23/15--I've been away for a good bit grappling with new challenges and the next stage of life struggles.
But I'm coming back with a new article, and a new idea!
Because we lead fascinating lives inside our minds (and may often appear very disconnected from reality as a result), it is only logical that you, too, have an equally fascinating universe that cannot wait to be discovered.
And guess what, INTPs are curious, determined, and will not stop until we have gained full access to everything that makes you, you.
If you need a product or service, why not go to another INTP?? And because these conflicts lead to frightening emotional upheaval and conflict for INTPs, their natural reactions may give you the appearance that they no longer have feelings for you. It is the intensity of the negative emotions that is fueling their withdrawal. Below, I'll describe common relationship situations, give you a sneak peek into the INTP consciousness, then suggest how you might respond. This article is focused on new and recently new relationships.
You know will get a person who understands your approach to the world! However, even the most seasoned relationships will see elements of themselves described here.
If our thoughts and perspective are always growing, how do we keep from out growing relationships? I honestly do not understand the emotional aspect of INTP. On the other hand, if we were about dreaming of possibilities without any real drive to achieve them, we would never reach competence.
If you find one, cherish her, because we are inconceivably unique and out of the ordinary. We have an underlying fear of commitment because we fear being controlled, so it may take some time for us to commit when dating us.
Here are some pros and cons of dating us INTP females. Therefore, we are not needy and do not like to restrain, or otherwise control you. We accept you, flaws and all, because once we’re in a relationship, we’re very loyal and committed. If you are the game playing type, an INTP female is not for you. This next one could go either way, although for us INTP females, we would consider this a pro.
You're asking whether lasting, romantic love can really be held and nurtured by INTPs, or are they so askew when it comes to emotions and our evolving nature that love will always wither in our hands? Do you know the old saying that half of the fun is getting there? For INTPs, the particular place we're going at any given moment is not what we love the most.
And INTPs seem to love something that most others don't. We have no need for lists, because of how easily we process and hold this type of information in our heads.