You know that when he opens his mouth, you’ll hear nothing but information about him. When it comes to life in the bedroom, he’s made it clear that his needs are ahead of yours. At that point in time he’s gotten what he wants and could care less about fulfilling your needs. When he’s had a bad day, you lend him an ear and a shoulder if need be. The world could be falling around him, but unless he’s directly hit by something, he could care less.He runs to you for emotional support when things aren’t going well. Your guy only gives two ounces of care when he is impacted. When he has a bad day at work the world is horrible, but if you are stressed about school, he’s not too caring or compassionate. When you’re in between the sheets, you know that in order to get your fill, he has to have his.It can be difficult to be clear-headed in a dating relationship.It is easy to see only the positive in the other person and completely ignore any warning signs. It would be foolish to date someone and not even consider the possible outcomes.If there is always that possibility, then you must ask yourself whether this person has the qualities you will need in a husband. Ask yourself these questions: How strong is his relationship with Jesus Christ? How passionate is he about reading God’s Word, prayer, and fellowship with other believers in a biblically solid church? However, in Ephesians Paul compares a husband’s role toward his wife with that of Christ’s role toward His Bride, the Church, “Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, the she might be holy and without blemish,” (Ephesians -27, emphasis mine).Christ’s role and a husband’s role do differ because only Christ alone can truly cleanse us.
It’s called being an individual entity with a decent level of personal security.However, a husband is responsible to lead his wife in sanctification, as this verse explains with the imagery of Christ and His bride.If a man cannot do that, he is not ready to be a husband.For eg, he/she only talks about own self instead of thinking about you two together.What else traits show that your boyfriend is selfish and is only in relationship for his own needs. Self centered: Your boyfriend is always involved in his life, his views, thoughts and wishes.