As “cougars”, it’s easy to get carried away with our own agendas completely disregarding what the “cub” brings to the table. Nothing keeps a younger man around more than a supportive older woman who is in awe of his talents and abilities. The now well-known term wasn’t a reference to the Chinese calendar; rather, it was a bordering-on-crass idiom coined to define 40-plus women with a predilection for younger gentlemen.
Eve messed it up and 2000 years later her seed is doing the same. I guess you probably think the Bible was right, when it speaks of men having several wives at a time.
No matter the age difference (mine is almost 9 years! They adore your mind, your ability to make strong decisions, a well-kept body and even a few gray hairs. It brings a continual spark to the whole relationship and gives each of you something to always think about. I might even throw in a road trip or two, just to make sure that we’ve covered all the bases of our togetherness and can actually stand each other after spending so much time in the car. As long as I love him and show it, patience comes through in spades.
), the energy that this man infuses to my life on a daily—no, make that hourly—basis is the epitome of new-found bliss.
A cougar is a hunter who preys on an innocent younger man. Some guys are naturally drawn to older women like any other physical "type," such as preferring blondes to brunettes.
A cougar exudes self-confidence, which makes her a highly desirable conquest to a younger man.